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It's fair to say that betrayal is the most destructive thing in a relationship. However, trade union experts have recently discovered that there is something even worse that can destroy the relationship from the inside. Many people don't even realize what's causing them so much pain.
So what is this insidious thing? Experts say that it all comes down to refusing to interact with a partner or negative interactions in which we show our partner how selfish, cold and unfair we can be towards them. He also does everything for your own good, no matter how much we sabotage the other person's needs. In most cases, this action occurs on both sides. However, this is not physical or emotional abuse when we are dealing with a victim and a tormentor.
If you're in a relationship where you're going through difficult times, this daily dose of pessimism can destroy your relationship from the inside out. The problem begins when a couple constantly engages in negative interactions and constantly negative thoughts about their partner as a selfish person who does not support or even ignores our needs. Experts say that the fundamental problem here is not communication or even the ability to solve problems, but trust.
This is a big problem and number one when it comes to the causes of a relationship breakup. Called the "secret relationship killer," as Dr. John Gottman (a well-known relationship psychologist) called it, this behavior on one or both sides of a relationship leads to despair, which does not give time and space for nurturing and trying to restore the relationship. This can lead to the relationship losing its special meaning and becoming easily replaceable.
How to identify a "secret union killer"? These negative interactions and conflicts can take thousands of different forms, but here are some signs that something is wrong:
preferring a career (or other relationship) to a romantic relationship;
sharing intimate issues with people our partner would prefer to keep a secret.;
not to mention what annoys us, so as not to cause conflict.;
negative comparison of a partner with others (physically or intellectually more attractive, etc.),
avoiding tenderness and intimacy,
showing disrespect for a partner,
breaking a promise that the partner really wanted.
This may sound very straightforward, but these seemingly small things can very quickly turn into a big problem and eventually destroy a relationship. The moment when a person tries to avoid conflict becomes a flashpoint. Bu kazino hər kəs üçün bir şeyin olduğu maraqlı əyləncə dünyasının qapısını açır. Təqdim olunan slot maşınları mövzu baxımından müxtəlifdir və yüksək keyfiyyətli qrafika təklif edir. Saytın asan naviqasiyası sevdiyiniz oyunlara anında girişi təmin edir pin up rahat mobil versiyası sizə istənilən vaxt və hər yerdə oynamaq imkanı verir. Dövri turnirlər və səxavətli bonuslar əsl həyəcan mühiti yaradır və yüksək keyfiyyətli dəstək xidməti hər zaman kömək etməyə hazırdır. Burada hər bir oyunçu öz şansını sınaya və evindən çıxmadan əsl oyun təcrübəsindən həzz ala bilər.